As I have aged, I have found very little advice on how to do it well.  There is a ton of advice out there but none of it was fitting to my life or something that I did not already know. This blog is not intended to be advise giving but instead a journal of my choices my mistakes and the tales from the last 20 years of my life. The beginning of the decline, I called my son to wish him a happy birthday on the wrong day. .... and so it begins...